the crux of human life

just a few words that reminded me of what's important.


relationship is the crux of human life. we all evolve in our relations and through our relations. i know college has brought about a dramatic and a sea change in my life in terms of every relation i have experienced.

the depth, the openness and intimacy that one can experience in relationships is way beyond socially designed and defined relations.

the love and surrender i have received in my life from every one is a blessing.

the canvas of relationships in our lives is much beyond socially accepted norms and relations. most of us may have just experienced our relations more as a routine than rejoice. this article is an attempt to share my experience and understanding of relations.

these distinctions will prove helpful in evolving in your relationships.


social relation
you look for recognition
you collect things
high on frequency and repetitiveness
low on joy
consistent
static
binds
committed
self interest
desire, passion, dependency
doing things to be happy
deserving
demanding
"special" means exclusion
establishes order
requires trained manners
seeking
want
uniformity
expectations
togetherness
looking at each other
defined, determined and planned

spiritual relation
you experience ecstasy
you share things
frequency and repetitiveness immaterial
high on joy
eternal
dynamic
frees
creative
surrenderful
vision, devotion, enhancing
being happy
offering
forgiving
"special" means inclusion
brings discipline
leads to sadhana
fulfilling
care
diversity
ownership
oneness
looking with the other
spontaneous


taking care of each other, procreating for survival and self glorification, supporting each other, standing up for each other, being with each other, for each other, is the highest in man woman social relation.
earning, spending, investing, saving and showing off is the attitude towards wealth

taking care of everyone, procreating for the spirit of care and share, supporting everyone, standing up for all, being there for everyone is the natural expression of a man woman spiritual relation.

sharing, offering, appealing is the attitude for wealth.

may we share deeper and more meaningful relations with all around.



**thank you sanjay ji**


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